LOVE: inspiration or destroyer?

Have you ever experienced something towards someone that can’t be explain by scientific reasons? Many people experienced this and YES, they really love the feeling: It is like laying on a bed of roses that floats in the air! But some people consider this feeling as their “worst nightmare” ever! I think it is because of the heartaches that caused them so much pain.

What if somebody says he or she likes you? And to think you really have special feelings for this person…what would you do? Well, if you were asking for my opinion, it would be fair to him if you also tell him how you feel! In that way, that person would not lose hope on you and he or she would feel that he or she is important to you. You see, life is not that dreadful and rude to hurt you when you feel so much pain inside.

People who are lucky may feel that love is like a jungle. It is full of fun and adventure. If you have already experienced it, I don’t know but you could feel that you are the happiest person in the world or in the whole galaxy. I already experienced that and I admit, I almost daydream everyday and think of that person. I can’t eat well, sleep and concentrate. Sometimes, I began to think, is love really healthy? I thought it makes you become a better person. I thought it inspires you to do good things. But what happened to the world of love? It is full of cruelty, ambition, selfishness and heartaches.

I know why people experienced heartaches. In fact, my classmates are the best examples of it. Let’s take my best friend’s example: she likes this guy but the guy can’t even notice her and this guy loves another girl. So, my best friend gave him a love letter explaining how much she loves him and that she feels pain whenever she saw him with another girl by his side instead of her. But then, she feels that the guy got discourage and began to avoid her. Are guys really like that? Sometimes, I thought that they are very harsh for treating a girl like that. Is that the girl’s fault to fall in love with a stupid guy who can’t love them back? Love can sometimes be harsh but I know that’s the best thing ever happened to you, don’t you?

But can somebody blame you to fall for someone whom you think you can never be yours. Is LOVE really that dreadful to be hated by somebody who got hurt because of this “desirable but sad feeling?” You can never be sure when the right time comes for you to experienced this but once you did, you can never tell if you like what you feel or not. So keep on going on, if you’ve been hurt several times, don’t easily give up, maybe destiny is still looking for that right guy or girl to come along!